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The Deep Talk Questions Most Couples Avoid

Questions couples skip because the answer might be complicated. You each answer privately first, which is exactly what makes them safe to ask.

The questions people avoid are usually the ones with an answer worth hearing.

The Deep Talk Questions Most Couples Avoid — Between Us

Five most couples avoid

Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.

  1. What is something we both know and never discuss?
  2. What do you resent, even slightly?
  3. What are you not saying because you fear the reaction?
  4. What do you need that you think you should not need?
  5. What would you change about how we handle conflict?

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You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.

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