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Marriage Questions to Ask When the Routine Has Taken Over

For marriages that are fine and quiet. A set of questions that finds the parts of each other that changed while nobody was looking.

Routine is not a villain. It is just very good at taking up all the room.

Marriage Questions to Ask When the Routine Has Taken Over — Between Us

Five when the routine has taken over

Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.

  1. What part of our routine would you happily break?
  2. When did you last feel excited about something we planned?
  3. What have we stopped making time for?
  4. What would you want a normal week to include?
  5. What is one thing that would make this month different?

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