Because you each answer privately first, the questions that are hard to say out loud become easy to write down.
Writing it down first is what makes the hard subjects possible to raise at all.

Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.
You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.
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