What Am I Doing That You've Never Told Me About?
A question from Between Us. The answer is easier to write than to say, which is exactly why it works.
There is almost always something. Nobody mentions it because it never seemed worth it.
Five about what goes unsaid
Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.
- What do I do that you have never told me about?
- What is something you notice and never mention?
- What would you change about me if you could, gently?
- What do you put up with?
- What do you love that you have never named out loud?
How it works
You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.
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