Questions for Couples Who Are Fine but Flat
Nothing is wrong. That is the hardest problem to talk about. These questions give it words.
Fine but flat is the hardest state to describe, and the easiest to stay in.
Five for when things are fine but flat
Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.
- What did we used to do that we quietly stopped?
- What is missing that neither of us has named?
- When did you last feel excited about something we planned?
- What would you want more of, if tiredness was not a factor?
- What is one thing that would make this week feel less like the last one?
How it works
You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.
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