Questions to Ask After a Hard Year Together
Relationship check-in questions for couples coming out of a difficult stretch. Private answers make honesty safer.
After a hard year the honest version is easier written than spoken.
Five after a hard year
Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.
- What got you through this year?
- What did you need that you did not get?
- What are you still carrying?
- What did you learn about us?
- What would help you most right now?
How it works
You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.
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