Questions for Couples to Ask Before Making a Big Decision
Moving, a job, a baby. Answer separately first so you hear what they actually think, not what they think you want.
Before a big decision, hear what they actually think rather than what they think you want.
Five before a big decision
Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.
- What are you most afraid of about this?
- What would you regret more, doing it or not?
- What do you need from me to feel steady?
- What is the version of this that excites you?
- What would make you feel we decided it together?
How it works
You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.
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