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Signs You've Drifted, and What to Ask Each Other Next

Drifting is quiet. These questions make it visible early enough to do something about it.

Drifting is quiet by nature. It only becomes obvious once it is far along.

Signs You've Drifted, and What to Ask Each Other Next — Between Us

Five when you have drifted

Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.

  1. When did you first notice the distance?
  2. What do you miss about how we were?
  3. What have you stopped telling me?
  4. What would you want us to try?
  5. What is one thing you would like this week to include?

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