68 Questions to Ask Your Partner, Ranked by How Much They Open Up
Deep questions to ask your partner tonight. Each of you answers on your own, at your own pace, and the answers meet on one page at the end.
Some questions get a sentence. Some get an hour. You cannot tell which in advance.
Five that open people up fastest
Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.
- What is something you changed your mind about this year?
- What are you more afraid of than you let on?
- What do you want that you have never said out loud?
- What is the kindest thing anyone has done for you?
- What would you do differently if you started over?
How it works
You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.
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