Questions to Ask Your Partner

Questions to ask your partner when the conversation has narrowed to logistics — and what to do with the answers.

You have been together long enough that you can predict what they will order. That is the good part. The strange part is that somewhere in there, the questions stopped. Not because anything is wrong — because nothing is. Below are the questions we use to start again.

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How it works

You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.

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