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Questions to Ask Your Partner That Aren't About the Kids

Conversation starters for parents who have not had a non-logistical conversation in months. Answer privately, then read them together.

Parents talk about the children all day. Somebody has to ask about the parents.

Questions to Ask Your Partner That Aren't About the Kids — Between Us

Five that have nothing to do with the kids

Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.

  1. Who are you outside of being a parent right now?
  2. What did you love doing before we had less time?
  3. What do you miss about how we were?
  4. What would you want a whole free day to look like?
  5. What is something you want for yourself this year?

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You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.

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