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Questions to Ask Your Partner to Actually Know Them Again

People change quietly. These are questions to ask your partner about who they are now, not who they were when you met.

People change quietly, and mostly nobody asks them about it.

Questions to Ask Your Partner to Actually Know Them Again — Between Us

Five to get to know them again

Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.

  1. What do you want now that you did not want three years ago?
  2. What is something you have gotten better at, that nobody noticed?
  3. What do you daydream about when you are not busy?
  4. What is a memory of us that you replay more than the others?
  5. What do you know about yourself now that you did not know when we met?

How it works

You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.

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