Between Us

Questions for Couples Who Have Been Together Nine Years

For the stage where you know the stories and stopped asking for new ones. This is where Between Us started.

Nine years in, you know the stories. You have stopped asking for new ones.

Questions for Couples Who Have Been Together Nine Years — Between Us

Five after nine years

Free. Ask them out loud, or answer them privately first — that is the whole trick.

  1. What has changed most about you in that time?
  2. What do you want now that you did not want then?
  3. What are you most proud of that we built?
  4. What have we quietly stopped doing?
  5. What do you want the next nine to include?

How it works

You each get your own private link and answer at your own pace, without the other one seeing a word. When you are both done, one shared page opens with your answers next to theirs. Not an app, not couples therapy.

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